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Ivan Slaughter Jr.

Ivan Slaughter Jr. was born in Bethany, Missouri, to Ivan Slaughter Sr. and Jo Dorothy (Squires) Slaughter on February 12th, 1921.  The young couple had just graduated from The University of Missouri and bought equipment and a farm with an enormous mortgage.  Within a few years, they had lost everything and moved to Columbia, MO, where Ivan Sr. got his master’s degree.  From there they moved to Eldon, MO where he was a county extension agent.  They had two more boys (Frank and Joe) and a much younger daughter (Dorothy Joann).  Farming was in a state of turmoil during those years and they moved up the scale, from job to job.  The family focus was to collect enough livestock and machinery to make a new start.

 

Ivan Jr. went to twelve schools in twelve years, graduating from Greenwood High School in 1940.  He had a partial scholarship to MU and went there until 1943, when he was taken from the Army Reserves to active duty.  After Officer’s Candidate School, he and Margery Hablutezel were married.  The young couple moved ten times until he was discharged as a first lieutenant liaison pilot in 1946.  They then moved to the farm they lived on for all of their married life.

Ivan started teaching in Pleasant Hill schools, then transferred to Lee’s Summit.  He continued teaching while farming on evenings and weekends for thirty years before retiring as a teacher, and maintained a working farm until his last days.

Ivan spent his limited free time as a 4-H leader, FFA advisor, and ecology club leader.  He eagerly shared his knowledge with all:  family, friends, and students.  He loved to read, fish and hunt, especially coon hunt, and had some excellent dogs.

He and Margery continued their legacy with five children:  Stan Slaughter (Linda);  Bill Slaughter (Susan); John Slaughter (Sarah); Ella Hackney (Ed); and Mark Slaughter (Paula).  They had seven grandchildren and sixteen great-grandchildren.  Ivan and Margery treasured their time with family and were exceptionally proud of all of their achievements.

Ivan was a lifelong observer of both human and animal behavior – both wild and domesticated.  He used a unique humor and spirit to bring love and knowledge.  We as his family will miss our father but are comforted to know that his legacy will “carry on!”.

 

Ivan was preceded in death by his wife, Margery M. (Habluetzel) Slaughter; his parents, Ivan and Jo Dorothy Slaughter and two brothers, Joe Slaughter and Frank Slaughter.

 

He is survived by four sons, Stan Slaughter and wife Linda Chubbuck of Lee’s Summit, Missouri, Bill Slaughter and wife Susan of Skidmore, Missouri, John Slaughter and wife Sarah of Clovis, California and Mark Slaughter and wife Paula of Marshfield, Missouri; one daughter, Ella Hackney and husband Ed of Greenwood, Missouri; one sister, Joann Kennedy of Liberal, Missouri; Seven grandchildren, Sixteen great grandchildren, other relatives and many friends.

 

Cremation has been accorded. Services will be held at a later date.

 

 

71 Messages

  • Bernadette Swanson Posted September 27, 2020 6:50 pm

    Stan and family, our condolences to you on the death of your father. I can see where your love of the land comes from! Prayers of comfort and peace to you. Bernadette and Larry

  • Helen Nelson Posted September 27, 2020 7:45 pm

    Dear Stan,
    My deepest sympathies are with you and your family following the passing of your father. I remember when your returned to the farm to help some 20 years or so ago. It is heartwarming to read about all that your parents went through and their persistent efforts to become successful farmers. You have no doubt gleaned much wisdom from their efforts, as have they from yours. May your cherished memories abide with you as sweet comfort at this sad time.
    With love and heartfelt sympathy,
    Helen Nelson

    • Stan Slaughter Posted October 8, 2020 7:38 pm

      Thanks, Helen

  • Sandy Nesbit Tracy Posted September 27, 2020 7:59 pm

    My condelences to the family. I am a 1963 LSHS graduate.

  • Rahimah Sweeney Posted September 27, 2020 8:08 pm

    To Stand and Linda, What an amazingly rich heritage you have in the roots of Missouri. The qualities that shaped your father gave you great depth, a teaching heart, and resources that have served the environmental community so well. May Ivan know peace and may your loss be eased. Love, Rahimah

    • Stan Slaughter Posted October 8, 2020 7:40 pm

      Thanks, Rahima Tins is a lovely comment.

  • Alta Sage Posted September 27, 2020 8:38 pm

    Ivan was such a pleasure to teach with and to socialize. His ability to tell stories of early Lee’s Summit captivated any audience. Ivan lived a great, full life. We are glad to have called Iva our friend. Love to all the family. God bless you! Gary and Alta

  • Jane Seelbach Posted September 27, 2020 9:09 pm

    My God comfort your family. Love and prayers. ✝️✝️✝️

  • Davella Ryno Posted September 27, 2020 9:15 pm

    Was sad to hear of Uncle Ivan’s passing. I will miss his Christmas letters, his unique laughter, and smile. Although we lived states apart I always felt connected. He made our 1953’s babies get together a special memory. Love y’all

  • Randy Weeda Posted September 27, 2020 10:22 pm

    Such a great man and my former high school science teacher. I am so glad I got to visit him last year at his home. He still remembered me! Rest in peace.

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